I've been trying to recall how we came to know Laurie May. I do recall that she and my wife at the time, Roena did become close friends. Laurie was
pretty well-fixed, financially. Those who had known her longer than I, told me she had a lot of income in the form of alimony, having been married to some wealthy corporate cheiftain. That seemed likely (if unimportant) to me, since her look and her act was definitely Trophy Wife Level AAAAA. She
was also a sweatheart (Probably still is). She enjoyed sharing her good fortune with her friends. For example; she would take Roena shopping at the
most up-scale department stores. Roena chose what she wanted, Laurie picked
up the tab. The first time it happened Roena couldn't believe her good luck,and said so. Laurie said something like "it's only money and besides, there is much more where that came from". At first hearing about these events and knowing Roena as I did, I realized that Laurie knew the way to gain and maintain Roena's unqualified approval.I might have wondered about
motive, but I soon came to understand it was just Laurie's way of being a good friend.
It never occured to me that she might have a way to gain my approval
(or that she would have any thought to seek it). But, early one morning in
June 1970 she appeared at our door with two friends in tow. She introduced
"Brother James" and "Brother Mathew" of the Rastafarian Order of the Coptic
Church. Well, I knew that members of their church used cannabis as their
sacrament and I knew what was in the large paper shopping bag which Brother
James carried. And,though not so much at the outset,sometime that same day,
I knew Laurie (for what ever reason) had located my button.
Please understand, the first I heard of their visit was on their arrival. And when I say early morning I mean very early. Actually, the
Rastas had arrived at SFO about ten the night before and had kept Laurie up
all night. They wanted to visit me soon after their plane's arrival but Laurie knew that I was an early-riser and not likely to be up much later
than the news at 11. They were in no real hurry to meet me. It turns out that in the rasta culture there is no sleep component for men. The women of the Rasta community are provided bedrooms and they do sleep at night for 6, 7 and maybe 8 hours. Men, however are held to a tougher stanard. In the Holy Bible, psalm 121 (I think it is) we read: "He that keepeth the Lord
shall not slumber..." and Rasta Men take the bible literally. (If that's possible,given the many contradictions there-in) Oh, they do sleep, not
voluntarily nor permissably, but during all-night services (every night)there is some nodding-off but it's always noticed by others (usually in seconds, not minutes)and interrupted before it brings damnation. So we see that their wanting to get on to our visit was simply them not wanting to waste any part of the day,dark or light. You might imagine that folks that never know a good night's sleep will proably not be as healthy as those of
us that do so with some regularity. The Rasta compound, a kind of rectory
for the thirteen priests and their wives,sits well up on Blue Mountain on a
large acreage with a river running thru and is pretty much surrounded by the residences of families of the Rastafarian bent. Together, they raise chickens and goats, grow vegetables,and harvest wild tubers and fruits.
There is more than enough for everyone and,I think, it's perhaps as good an omnivorous diet as you could get. Despite that and the fact that they all
get plenty of all-body exercise, those in the priesthood (who never sleep)
have a life-expectancy in the mid-to-high-thirties. Those whom I met in
1970 have long-since gone to their reward, barring a change in their way
of worship. In discussion of this subject with the visiting Rastas it was
made plain to me that the men in the community surrounding the compound
were not expected to totally deprive themselves of sleep. Most all of them
had jobs somewhere down the mountain. Some as far as Kingston or one of
it's suburbs. None of them attended night services every night, but nearly all of them attended at least 2 or 3 times a week. And it was not unusual
to see a number of them working side-by-side with the priests at their
day work. This last I learned later, when I visited the Rasta compound and
environs in response to the invitation of brothers James and Mathew.